If you observe successful people, you would realize a big difference in their mindset, the way they approach problems and how they see challenge. They face hardship like everyone else however they develop ability to embrace positive attitude and turn failure to success.
1) How old are you? Do you think you’re too young or you’re too all old?
If yes, you’re wrong! Wherever you are in your career and life, continue to dream big and find new avenues to share your skills. Don’t let your age or your perception of your age hold you back. You’ll be surprised at what you have to offer. Like successful people don’t let your age define who you are and what you are capable. Just follow you heart and your passion.
No matter how old you are now. You are never too young or too old for success or going after what you want.
- Shirley Temple was 6 when she became a movie star on “Bright Eyes
- R.R Tolkien was 62 when the Lord of the Ring books came out
2) Do you have a good reason to keep your dream in a drawer?
If you don’t go after what you want, you will never get it! Stop reading and go get a pen and paper.
Write down everything you’re grateful for. Then for the next 21 days, focus on all positive things in your life. Remember you can’t fix every problem but you could avoid it by setting your limit and distance yourself from it.
3) Who you spend time with ?
Did you know that you’re the average of 5 people you spend the most of your time? If you forget about this truth, it’s time to define new boundaries in your life!
Start by make list of great people that inspire you and could help you reach your potential. Then make your resolution today to get close to them. If you’re not happy with where you are in your life, just take a look around. Get the book Art of Achievement: Mastering the 7 C’s of Success in Business and Lifethat might help you. Listen to the audio program. Talk to people that believe in your best. Whatever it takes, you have the key to be successful!
4) Are you paying too much attention to other’s opinion?
Is it important for you to know the answer? If yes, I’m telling you my friend that you’re about to waste your time and energy. Other’s opinion are never accurate about who you are. Remember people see you the way they see themselves. No matter what they think about you, you’re never as good nor as bad as they say! Listen to their advice but follow your gut. You’re in charge in your life, don’t ever let somebody control the success you want to achieve.
5) What you’re FEAR about?
Fear is the best friend of your comfort zone! What make you scare when you think about your dream? Whatever your answer!
Know the fear is real because you believe it. Of course you will feel uncomfortable but without the choice to conquer your fear, you will be stuck! So, what’s the solution?
Don’t ever hold back in life because you’re scared. Be addicted to the feeling of success. Do what you’re afraid of, and you will discover new opportunities to be successful.
6) Where are you living?
No sorry my friend I don’t ask you your home address! I mean if your state of mind is in the past or the future?
Your life is NOW. The past is for lesson and the future is for your dream. Today must be your focus. To reach your potential you have to be present and embrace the reality of this moment.
Below is 2 secrets to practice daily:
- Accept your past. No amount of guilt can change it. That’s over. Look only in your past for lesson that makes you better today and use it to know how far you’ve come. That’s your way to measure your progress
- Accept you can’t control the future. Dream but live today. And remember you have the strength to overcome any setback, you have the power to control your state of mind and what you get what you give in life.
7) Do you worry about the bad news in the world?
You might have good reason to worry but let me tell you my friend:
If you get caught up in thing you can’t control, you will lose any opportunities to improve your life. You’ve better focus your energy on focus on two things you are power over: Your attention and your action.
Good and bad thing happen in our worlds. If you don’t have the power to change the bad news, give yourself the gift of gratitude by make a difference in somebody’s life because a small step can make the world a better place.
So, what’s your resolution after reading this article? Are you going to be a victim of 7 those obstacles or will you commit to be a winner?
You have the answer my friend. All my wishes are you’re living a successful and happy life and remember your mindset is the best tool you have to achieve your dream life.